Sex, Romance, Commitment

I ask questions. It’s one of the things I do most, especially about life, existence. Sex, Romance, or Commitment? One of the questions I’ve asked people lately is: If you could only have one, which would you choose between Sex, Romance, or Commitment? After their answer, then I asked, if you could only choose two […]

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Provide For The Future

I’ve written about Providing Whatever is Needed, and Providing in the Moment. Now, let’s take a look at Providing for the Future to round this out. Often times, people feel inept to provide at all because, for whatever reason, they aren’t able to do it now, in the moment, in the Present. More times than […]

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How To Let Go: Podcast

Sometimes, we hold on to things far beyond the point of learning from them because we are afraid of what we think we’re going to lose if we let it go, and most times, by holding on, we wind up doing my harm to ourselves than any thing or any person could ever do.

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Provide In The Moment

How is this done? Observe the situation at hand, assess what’s needed most, and provide that missing element. The solution could require you to simply be a helping hand, give a word of encouragement, be a listening ear, a reliable witness, or perhaps simply you going to get someone else better suited to fulfill the […]

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Provide Whatever Is Needed

There a many ways one can provide, and as a Man, being limited primarily to finances or resources, enforced by a Patriarchal Society, it can be very disheartening and unfulfilling especially when such things are slanted in favor of certain “others” when Class and Ethnicity are  involved. It can leave one feeling empty, worthless, and […]

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