Sex, Romance, Commitment

I ask questions. It’s one of the things I do most, especially about life, existence. Sex, Romance, or Commitment? One of the questions I’ve asked people lately is: If you could only have one, which would you choose between Sex, Romance, or Commitment? After their answer, then I asked, if you could only choose two […]

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Love God

The meaning of Love, in the Love – Master – Provide foundation which I stand on, and speak from, is borrowed from the biblical Definition of Love: Love is Patient Love is Kind Love does not Envy Love does not Boast Love is not Proud Love does not Dishonor others Love is not Self-Seeking Love […]

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You’re Not A Man

Part Talk, Part Rant, All Me. Take it or leave it. A Good Man loves, masters and provides, always striving to be a benefit to himself, his loved ones, and his community at large working towards a better future. In contrast, a Weak Man is selfish, self-centered, and immature, acting out in aggression, always seeking […]

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What Foundations Do You Stand On?

Love, Master, Provide Is a foundation I’ve laid out for myself. It’s what my character stands on. it’s what my whole being stands on. It guides my thoughts and it guides my actions. Though I believe it to be universal and suitable for both Males and Females, I originally created it as my own personal […]

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The 3rd Step of Letting Go

THE LANDING Accept the unknown. “The Third Step in Letting Go is understanding that You Will Survive.” Once you hit the bottom, you will realize a number of things, or at least you should, some sooner and others later. 1) It wasn’t as bad as you thought it would be. 2) You are stronger than […]

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The 2nd Step of Letting Go

THE FALL Embrace what must come. “The Second Step to Letting Go is understanding why You Have To.” The fall represents that dreadful and terrifying feeling of loss. The stomach twisting feeling of falling from a great height. In all its complexities, it is quite arguably the scariest part of Letting Go but it is […]

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The 1st Step of Letting Go

THE BURNING BUILDING You’re hanging off the ledge of a building engulfed in flames. Tears stream down your cheeks due to thick black smoke stinging your eyes.You try to scream but that same thick black smoke chokes all attempts and burns your throat. From below, voices call out, some familiar and some not, but they […]

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Suicide By Life

Don’t worry, I’m not talking about watching people commit suicide in the traditional sense, but watching a person continuously make bad and self-destructive decisions can feel like watching them commit suicide. At least, to me it does. Especially after you’ve talked to them, helped them to see the light, the reality of their circumstances, the […]

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Why Things Are The Way They Are

Bottom line? Too many people believe in how things are.

For example, take the various systems of inequity and oppression: Racism, Sexism, Colorism, Beautism, Classism, etc… They all exist. Why? Because people practice them. Why? Because people believe in them. Why? Very good question, and one that I’m baffled by to some degree.

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